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Meagan Yarmey PhD, MA, MSW, RSW
Writing
Applied psychology | performance | the inner lives of capable people under pressure
I write about applied psychology, performance, and the psychological patterns that shape how capable people think, decide, and function under sustained demand.
The work bridges psychological science and lived experience, drawing from clinical practice, doctoral research, and over twenty years in complex human environments.
The aim is not self-help, but clarity. Understanding what is actually happening, not just managing how it feels.
If something here resonates, that is usually sufficient.
Why You Go Quiet in Meetings (It’s Not About Confidence) | Imposter Syndrome at Work.
Impostor syndrome is often treated as a confidence problem. In practice, it reflects how the mind calibrates risk, visibility, and evaluation in real time. This article examines why capable professionals go quiet in meetings and what’s actually happening in the moment.
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Decision Paralysis: How Cognitive Load Undermines Clarity
By Meagan Yarmey, PhD, MSW, RSW Decision Paralysis Decision paralysis is often described as indecision or diminished confidence. In reality, it is more accurately understood as a byproduct of responsibility. The same capacities that allow people to recognize complexity, anticipate consequence, and act with care can, under sustained pressure, begin to work against them. When someone finds themselves overthinking decisions that matter, the problem is rarely an inability to choo
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Motivation Without Illusion: Mental Contrasting in Executive Psychotherapy
By Meagan Yarmey, PhD, MSW, RSW High‑performing adults are rarely unmotivated in the conventional sense. Most have well‑developed capacities for discipline, responsibility, and sustained effort. When motivation begins to falter, it is usually not due to a lack of ambition, but to a growing disconnect between intention and behaviour, between what matters and what reliably happens under pressure. In executive psychotherapy, this pattern appears frequently. Clients describe want
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Decision Fatigue in Professionals: The Cognitive Tax of Being the Reliable One
By Meagan Yarmey, PhD, MSW, RSW In high responsibility roles, success is often measured by output. Decisions are made, problems are solved, and outcomes are delivered. What is less visible is the accumulating cost behind that output. There is an internal ledger that tracks the cognitive tax of sustained responsibility. Each decision, negotiation, and moment of restraint draws on a finite mental resource. Over time, this cost compounds. If you notice your clarity diminishing a
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Your Body Knows Before You Do: The Hidden Role of Physical Sensation in Decision Making
By Meagan Yarmey, PhD, MSW, RSW You may be skilled at reading people, contexts, and systems. Many professionals are. What is less reliably developed is the ability to read the body, particularly under conditions of pressure, fatigue, or sustained responsibility. In clinical work with high‑functioning adults, impaired interoceptive awareness often sits quietly beneath difficulties with decision making, emotional regulation, and burnout. People describe feeling mentally sharp y
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You Have the Skills. So Why Does Pressure Make Them Disappear?
By Meagan Yarmey, PhD, MSW, RSW There is a version of high performance that relies on preparation, discipline, and accumulated expertise. Most high‑achieving professionals already inhabit this version. They have trained extensively, invested in credentials, and developed reliable technical competence. What is far less frequently trained is the psychological dimension of performance itself, the capacity to remain clear, present, and responsive when stakes rise and conditions b
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The Smartest Thing You Can Do Is Not Know: Psychological Flexibility and the Beginner's Mind
By Meagan Yarmey, PhD, MSW, RSW Beginner's mind: where mind, body, and flexibility flow. Many people approach therapy or contemplative practice wanting relief, quickly. They want the reframe, the insight, the explanation that will finally bring stability or clarity. This impulse is understandable. Discomfort is difficult to live with, particularly for people accustomed to competence and self‑control. What is often missed is that meaningful change does not occur by outrunning
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The Diplomatic Mindset Psychology of High Stakes Leadership
Diplomatic mindset The contemporary professional landscape is increasingly defined by volatility and emotionally dense systems. While popular portrayals such as The Diplomat dramatize external maneuvers of negotiation and influence, the real efficacy of diplomacy lies elsewhere. It is rooted in an internal psychological architecture that allows an individual to regulate themselves under pressure before attempting to influence others. From a clinical and applied social psychol
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